The big day is finally here. All of your friends have dates for Valentine’s Day, and you are left at home watching re-runs of America’s Next Top Model and eating the chocolates that your dad gave you (gotta love your dad!). If you aren’t feeling the mushy-ness of this Hallmark holiday, here are some ways to spend the day on your own.

All of the love birds will be trying to deck themselves out in red, pink and white, so give yourself a manicure with a totally opposite color. I love Russian Navy by OPI, because the dark blue color is dark and moody without being harsh and gothic like a black polish.

While you’re at it, smudge on some Benefit Bad Gal eyeliner for some attitude — it goes on really soft, so you can rub it lightly with your fingers to create a smoky look!

The couples will probably be enjoying chocolates and drinks as the night wears on, so why not have both in one? Make yourself a cup of hot chocolate and then add your favorite alcohol — pretty much anything works! Peppermint Schnapps makes for a great mint hot chocolate, while a little bit of Chambord makes it raspberry chocolate. Do try to include a friend in this activity — drinking alone on Valentine’s Day isn’t a good idea.

Finally, take a hot bath before you turn in for the night with this awesome bath bomb from LUSH called The Ex Factor. This little guy looks sort of like a voodoo doll, so make yourself feel better by crumbling him into bath and making bubbles instead of stalking your ex and his new girlfriend.

And don’t worry, there’s always next year.